Hello, my name is Amanda Miles and I am a 20-year-old student at St. Norbert College in De Pere, WI. I first started running because I could see that it was something that both my Mom and my Dad did that made them healthy, happy, excited, and enthusiastic for life. Seeing my parents run races made me want to do it as well. Under the guidance of my dad, I became a running fanatic and someone who loves to share the joy of running with others. My dad is my biggest role model and fan.
I ran my first race when I was 2 1/2 years old. It was a half-mile fun run that I did with my dad, documented by a picture of me in an oversized t-shirt nearly drowning, my head barely sticking out from the top. When I was 11 I ran my first half marathon and placed in my age category. I continued race in a plethora of runs, most of them with my entire family. In high school I ran Cross Country and Track, fast enough to make varsity, but nowhere near the top competitors. The accomplishment I am most proud of was completing my first marathon, the Florida Space Coast Marathon, at age 17 and taking first place in my age category. My Dad trained and ran this race with me, teaching me the basics of running, as well as dedication, determination, and the will power to achieve anything I set my mind to. My Dad was the one that would get me out the door even when going on that 20 mile run at 6:00 on a Saturday morning was the last thing I wanted to do.
When I went off to college, I missed running with my dad. I missed the simple, encouraging, motivating presence he brought. He kept me on track, he pushed me to my limits, and he allowed me to achieve all that I did as an athlete. I don’t think I realized how much I needed him, how much he was an essential part of my life, of my training, of my racing. I want to thank my Dad all for everything that he did for me; I don’t think I can ever relay to him how much of a difference he made in my life.
As much as I loved running, I never ran my freshman year of college. As something that was stress relieving, motivating, freeing, and a part of my daily life, this was a weird experience for me. I struggled with being motivated and pushing myself on my own. In January of last year, I signed up for the Cellcom Green Bay Half Marathon as motivation to begin training again. After completing the race, and despite the 40mph winds, getting one of my best times, I was propelled to begin my routine of running every single day again.
Now I have found my place again, I am running every day, training for my third marathon, and working to motivate others and myself just as my Dad did for me. I can now be the role model, but it was my dad who graciously and selflessly passed on to me everything I needed to know about being a runner. Knowing how to run, train, and race, and being able to share that knowledge with others is one of my favorite things to do.
Most of the time it is as simple as finding friends who are active and all of us keeping each other accountable and motivated to get out there and give it our all; to a support group, and a source of strength for each other. We hold each other accountable and take the miles one by one, pushing each other, training, and most importantly- building a strong relationship that only comes through exercising together.
I have found some motivation that works for me, to keep me on track every single day for the upcoming race. When I run I love seeing other people out for their runs as well. This keeps me motivated and gives me a reason to never stop running. As a busy college student, running everyday gives me a chance to slow down from the fast pace of life, either spend some time alone or catching up with a friend, relax, de-stress, and take a moment to be thankful for the beautiful world we live in.
I’ve realized that what you really, truly love doing shouldn’t ever be crammed and tucked away into that little place designated for “later”, when there is more time, when you are not distracted, when you are not to busy working. I have learned to fall in love with running again and to stick it out on days I would have preferred to comfortably sit at home, make some hot cocoa, and curl up in front of the fireplace, read, and listen to the crackling and intensity of the flames lapping at the wood. When I’m running I keep in mind that even though I might not love every minute of it, afterwards I will feel great. I know I’m not always the fastest runner, but what I lack in speed, I like to think I make up for in effort. In every workout I strive to leave everything out on the course, I never give less air than my lungs can squeeze out. If there is one thing I have learned from running, it is perseverance. I have learned to put aside the pain and finish the race. Perseverance is compelling. It motivates and changes passive dreams into working achievements. Good Luck with your training, I know you can do it!
-Amanda Miles


